Laugh, Paper, Scissors... a Valentine's Day Tradition

Who says homemade Valentine’s are just for kids? I saw a cute article in this month’s issue of Better Home & Gardens magazine that showcases a group of crafty middle-age friends that get together for Valentine-making fun. The women not only make Valentine's Day cards, but also make and decorate heart-shaped sugar cookies too. Sounds like it would be right up my alley. Guess I’ll have to get on that for next year. I think it would be a fabulous Valentine's tradition to start with my girlfriends.

If you'd like to start your own craft get-together, BHG gives three simple tips that might be helpful if you decide to get crafty.

1. Start small and keep it simple. Invite up to five enthusiastic friends. You can always expand later.
2. Have one person buy the craft supplies, keeping the tab at $10-$20 per person. Others reimburse her.
3. The leader should mock up the project before the guests arrive. This allows her to iron out the how-to and gives less confident participants a sample to copy.

Besides making Valentine's Day cards for your husbands, kids or friends, your V-Day craft could include gift tags, heart garland or Valentine-themed window decorations. Let your heart be your guide and have fun!

25 Years of Christmas

I just had to share this cool video I found that documents 25 years of one family's descent down the stairs on Christmas morning. In under three minutes you see two children grow up before your eyes. It's heartwarming to watch how the kids change and grow as the years progress. I love the idea and I think it would be a fabulous tradition to start in any home with kids.

Traditional Holiday Drinks... Yummy!

Every year when I was young we'd celebrate Christmas at my Grandma's house. Besides a whole spread of delicious food and cookies, we'd have special holiday drinks to top off the evening. After the dinner was over my two aunts would spend time in the kitchen blending delicious ice cream drinks for all the relatives. The two drinks that were made every year were Brandy Alexanders and Grasshoppers. Of course being a kid I didn't get to taste the alcoholic version, but I would always get some special ice cream drink made just for me. I clearly remember everyone ooohing and aaahing over the wonderful drinks and I always looked forward to the day when I could have the "real" stuff.
The days of celebrating at my Grandma's house have long passed now and my family hasn't blended a delicious ice cream drink as part of our Christmas celebration in many, many years. This year John and I decided to resurrect the tradition at our house and make the drinks for John's family celebration. After dinner was over, we got out the blender and made the Brandy Alexanders and Grasshoppers. Of course, everybody loved them. Who wouldn't, they're like alcoholic candy. I truly enjoyed the drinks, but I even more I enjoyed the memories that sipping the drink brought back of Christmas celebrations from my youth.
Do you have a special drink that you associate with the holidays? Warm hot chocolate with a peppermint stick and marshmallows, Tom and Jerry's? We'd love to hear about your holiday drink traditions.
And if you want to make Brandy Alexander's at your next celebration, I've included the recipe below. I highly recommend the ice cream version as opposed to many of the recipes that simply include heavy cream. How could anyone go wrong with ice cream?

Brandy Alexander

• 1 jigger Brandy
• 2 ounce Creme de Cacao
• 1 pint Ice Cream
• 1 cup of crushed ice

Put all ingredients in a blender and blend until smooth. Pour into a martini glass. Sprinkle with nutmeg. Enjoy.

I Love Christmas Cards

One of my favorite things about the holidays is getting Christmas cards in the mail. I very excitedly look forward to getting the mail every day to see what cards we received. I love looking at the photo cards to see how everyone has changed since last year and I love, love, love reading Christmas letters, poems and notes. Some catch me up, some make me laugh, some absolutely crack me up, some make me cry and some just make me shake my head. No matter what the response though, I love reading them all. With that said, I've only done my part in entertaining others by writing a letter just once a few years ago. This year things just got too hectic (as always) and it seemed too late to craft a letter. I promise I'll do one next year though! (Please remind me in November!)

For the last several years I've taped all the cards we receive up on the dining room windows so I can look at them through the holiday season. I figure, I enjoy the cards so much, why would I just simply throw them in a basket so I can't see them. I want them to be part of my holiday decorating. I truly enjoy looking up at the cards as we sit a tthe dining room table. This year I discovered that there is someone else in our household that enjoys the Christmas cards even more than I do. Little Miss Stella LOVES looking at the cards. She especially likes the photo cards and particularly focuses on cards with babies and small children. She gazes up and studies the cards and always notices when I add more to the mix. It's so fun to watch her admiring all the beautiful cards and sharing in one of her Mom's favorite traditions.
How do you display your Christmas cards?

I Have the Best Neighbors!

I am so lucky to have wonderful neighbors. I am even more lucky to have wonderful neighbors that know how to bake AND like to share. This year we were lucky enough to be the happy recipients of delicious baked goods from three of our neighbors! We received an entire assortment of cookies, chocolate dipped goodies, granola, savory nut mix, chex mix and caramel corn that was absolutely to die for (and to diet for later). I'm savoring every delicious morsel of the home-baked goodies because with such amazing neighbors, it will certainly mean a New Year's Diet Resolution again this year.
Do you have any special home-made goodies (baked or otherwise) that you share with your neighbors, friends or co-workers?

You've Been Elfed!

I've been in love with the "You've Been Elfed" tradition ever since I learned of it. I've been promising myself that I was going to start "elfing" in my neighborhood for years and this year, I finally did it! I bought some cute little goodies at the store and a inexpensive Christmas stocking to put them in. I jump-started the neighborhood "elfing" by doing 4 elf gifts for neighbors in different sections of our neighborhood. I planned on starting earlier in December, but only got the stockings delivered very very late on Sunday night. I hope the recipients enjoyed their surprise and I hope they pass on the joy that comes from "elfing" your neighbor. I think it's a fun neighborhood tradition that will be exciting for both kids and adults.
Here's more information on CafeTraditions.com about the You've Been Elfed tradition.

Happy Elfing Everyone!

The Smells of Christmas

I love Christmas for so many reasons, there's the sounds, sights, and even the smells. The delicious smells of cookies baking, cranberry candles burning, and last, but not least, the beautiful smell of a fresh Christmas tree. I've had a fresh-cut tree my whole life and even with the nuisance of the dropping needles, the sap, and the constant need to water, I'm sure I'll continue that tradition for many years to come. For me nothing compares to the smell of a real tree. The smell always brings back many happy memories of holidays past. What's your favorite holiday smell?

Christmas TV Specials, Movies and More

I love watching many of the same Christmas specials that I watched when I was a kid. For me no Christmas season is complete without watching Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer, Frosty the Snowman, How the Grinch Stole Christmas and a Charlie Brown Christmas. I remember when I was young my Mom would have to check the TV listings so we didn't miss the one time each year the shows were on television. I remember anxiously looking forward to those special nights so I could watch the shows with my family. Of course, now things are a bit easier, we have DVDs, on Demand and DVRs so all the planning that went into the schedule to ensure we were home that one night a year doesn't exist. Now, we simply pull out the video, hit a few buttons and the show is there whenever we are ready to watch. It's a nice luxury to have the shows at our fingertips, but I have to admit the old way felt more special and added to the tradition of Christmas.

What are your favorite holidays movies? Do you have any special traditions that you celebrate when you watch them? I'm still waiting to watch a few more of my favorites before this Christmas season is over. I can't wait to see White Christmas, Miracle of 34th Street and Elf.

Christmas Breakfast Tradition

A new tradition was just posted at CafeTraditions.com involving a special Christmas morning breakfast tradition. Georgette posted that she has been making the same yummy gingerbread pancakes with warm maple applesauce since she first got married and it's the only day of the year when she serves the special pancakes. First, I have to say I'm a bit intrigued with gingerbread pancakes so I found a recipe at Food2.com.

Second, I love the idea of serving a special Christmas morning breakfast. While I don't know that mine will be gingerbread pancakes, I'd like to find a special recipe that we could make part of our Christmas morning.

Do you have special breakfast that you serve on Christmas morning? I'd love to hear your ideas.

Cookies for Santa

Stella is still a little young to understand leaving treats out for Santa and his reindeer, so I haven't participated in such a tradition in quite a few years. In fact, it was probably at least 20 years or so ago when my younger sister and brother still believed that the Jolly Fat Man snuck into our house and not only left us presents, but also ate the snacks we left out for him. I don't remember very vividly, but I think we only left a few cookies and a glass of milk. I don't think we left anything for those hard-working reindeer of his! One of the traditions on CafeTraditions.com features one family's take on leaving out a treat for Santa. Read about it here and feel free to leave a comment below on what tradition you have for leaving a treat for Santa.